How do I know if _________ is good for me? Fill in the blank with whatever it is that is currently causing this concern. Ultimately the “concerns” you’re noticing are rooted in doubt and doubts are rooted in past experiences. You must be fair to every situation and treat it as if it were the first time, but use the knowledge gathered from previous instances to ask the questions that will help you make an EDUCATED DECISION. We all want to control our outcomes in efforts to prevent us from getting hurt and that’s okay, but you have to let go of the tight grip because you are more likely to guarantee disappointment. Are you ready to help yourself understand your complex mind? Well go ahead and listen to this episode of a Dose of Fresh Air.